I am sure every person who reads this post will, at one time or another, hesitate and either give way to negative thoughts or vacillate momentarily. At the same time, they deal with the need to Overcome Negative Thoughts that influence their self-belief system.
Some of you will not agree with that comment and go to great lengths to prove it, if only to yourself.
Firstly, let me say having negative thoughts is not a bad thing as long as you don’t allow them to dominate your self-belief system and cause you anxiety or any distress.
I decided to write this post after talking with a colleague recently who was sent a meeting request from their CEO and had spent a restless night thinking about what they had done wrong or should have done but not completed.
This colleague is an overachiever, achieving over 105% of the forecast despite the COVID-19 pandemic.
Moments like this are when your brain is searching for the purpose behind the meeting, and it is very easy to make more of the situation and allow your brain to start down the rabbit hole of negative thoughts and self-doubt.
Overcoming Negative Thoughts

The secret to Overcoming Negative Thoughts is using the switch in your head that allows you to relive all the great things you have done and achieved.
Do this, and no matter what the CEO’s agenda is, you have the tools to turn the meeting on its head. Use the opportunity to cover issues that are limiting your effectiveness and to place changes on the agenda that you believe need to be made to allow you to achieve stronger growth.
In your role as a Sales Manager, you have acquired the art of persuasion and all the skills and techniques required to turn any meeting around and achieve a stronger outcome.
Brian Tracey uses a phase in his training audios that I have always found very helpful:
You aren’t what you think you are what you think you are.
One more time with emphasis.
You aren’t what you think you are
What you think
You are
It is bad enough when other people play mind games with you without you doing it.
Make a list of all your accomplishments and achievements and use these as the armour you need to protect yourself from your worst enemy. YOU!
As for the outcome of the meeting my colleague had with their CEO.
“I just wanted you to know that regarding the issues we discussed last month, I am going to make the changes to that department we spoke about, and I wanted to thank you for your strong and valued opinion.”
